I had such a great response off my last blog posting about the questions and comments that people throw my way while out in public, so I thought I'd share more of my experiences that truly boggle my mind. I'd have to say that the most common (and most annoying) behavior is when strangers watch me struggle to get into doorways, and do not offer to hold the door. Unlike a stroller designed for one child, the long double stroller that we use is a royal pain to get into a doorway. Going to places like the grocery store is a pleasure because the doors open automatically on sensors, however, most places require that patrons swing the doors open themselves. So, this requires me to push my rear into the door and hurl the stroller forward to get through the doorway. This often must happen twice, as most retails store have two sets of doors to enter their facility. Although I think that all businesses should have handicap buttons to allow those with disabilities and double strollers to get into doors more easily, it irks me most when people just watch me struggle to get the stroller into the door. The worst part is that I can see people outside and inside the store out of the corner of my eye just watching me struggle. Then, once I finally get through the door, they make comments such as "Ohhh, you have your hands full" or "Uh-oh, double trouble." I just give a half-hearted smile and walk away but I'd really love to say,"Thanks for noticing jackass. Next time, hold the door!" I will never have the guts to say that though.
I'd be curious to hear stories from other mommas about how they've struggled in public and what responses they've gotten from others. Please share your stories; they're sure to be entertaining!
I have one (well, now two) and often ask people to hold the door or get the door for me if they are also using the doorway. Don't be afraid, just ask!
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